A couple of years ago, I went on quite possibly the worst tinder date ever. I was a tinder virgin and was quite nervous about the date, as I had only ever heard bad things (actually, my brother met his ex on tinder, so it can’t be all bad).
I thought I had found the only good guy on there. Let’s just say it ended up being a disappointment. Said guy, let’s call him *Thomas, met me at Devo on the Wharf in Auckland. It started off ok, but then after a while, after he polished off a whole bottle of wine, including the remnants of wine in my glass, he started getting a bit…well…odd.
I thought that perhaps he was just a bit nervous. But, really, being slightly drunk doesn’t excuse gropy behaviour.
We were walking back to my car when he said:
“it’s quiet here, that means I can do this!”
He grabbed me by the arm, pulled me into him and grabbed my boob. Like, excuse me? Thanks for asking!
Funnily enough, the people I told about it said that maybe he was nervous and just trying to be funny. Not sure what is funny about a bob grab, but ok.
Have you had an awful date before?